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Empowering Parent Carers with Tools and Support.
  • Lists - The ultimate tool for balancing work and caregiving responsibilities
    O (Oasis)

    Lists: The Ultimate Tool for Balancing Work and Caregiving Responsibilities

    Bydebs August 5, 2023December 8, 2024

    Lists are more than just reminders—they’re your secret weapon for balancing work and caregiving. From to-do lists to caregiving checklists, explore how this simple tool can reduce stress, boost productivity, and bring order to your busy life.

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  • A to Z of Acronyms for Parent Carers from Life Aspland
    I (Insight)

    Acronyms – A to Z – for Parent Carers

    Bydebs July 31, 2023December 8, 2024

    Do you sit in meetings or read reports and wonder what on earth this shortcode is that everyone seems to use? Acronyms are rife within the world of special educational needs and/or disabilities, or should I say SEND? Over the years, I have tried to keep a list of acronyms we’ve encountered. Last night I…

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  • A crime board with photos and papers connected by strings
    K (Kindred) | O (Oasis)

    Become a Behaviour Detective

    Bydebs July 4, 2023December 12, 2024

    Unravelling Your Child’s Actions with a Reactions Tracker Alright, super parents, it’s time to put on our detective hats! We all know that raising a child with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) is a bit like being in a real-life game of Cluedo, but instead of solving a crime, we’re deciphering the mysteries of…

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  • Life AsPland Mojo Spring Back
    N (Nourishment)

    Bouncing Back – Free webinar March 2023

    Bydebs February 25, 2023December 8, 2024

    Congratulations, you’re almost there. Sign up today to come along to the free webinar giving you tips and tricks on how to make it easier for you to get back up after a bad day. As a parent carer, you will need to do this on a regular basis. Why not get prepared for this…

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  • Emma Murphy
    Podcast

    Podcast – Emma Murphy – Always have a Plan B

    Bydebs January 31, 2021December 8, 2024

    On the podcast today, I am joined by the very entertaining Emma Murphy. Emma is a special needs teacher, a mum of two boys and has a crazy springer spaniel who drives her mad and saves her sanity in equal measures. She juggles teaching part time with being a carer for her 10 year old…

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  • Podcast – Angela Kelly
    Podcast

    Podcast – Angela Kelly

    Bydebs January 24, 2021December 8, 2024

    This week I am joined on the podcast by Angela Kelly Angela is a parent and step parent to five children – two biological children and three step children, Her step children are all grown up. She also has three step grandchildren – who are all fabulous. Angela works as a counsellor and psychotherapist which…

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  • Podcast – Emma Stoneman
    Podcast

    Podcast – Emma Stoneman

    Bydebs January 17, 2021December 8, 2024

    Joining me this week is the lovely Emma. In the podcast we refer to Emma as Emma Barritt but she is now Emma Stoneman. Emma is a midwife who qualified during Lockdown. She is a mum of three, a runner (although she doesn’t think of herself as a runner) and in today’s episode she shares…

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  • Podcast – Isabelle Garnett – Human Too
    Podcast

    Podcast – Isabelle Garnett – Human Too

    Bydebs January 10, 2021December 8, 2024

    Isabelle is a mum of two extra-ordinary young people, one of whom has autism and learning disability. She has a post-graduate diploma in autism and ran an autism support team in a federation of mainstream primary schools. These days, she campaigns for homes not hospitals for people with learning disability and autistic people and also…

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  • If you want to make an easy job seem mighty hard, just keep putting it off.
    O (Oasis)

    Putting it off – making an easy job a challenge

    Bydebs September 30, 2020December 8, 2024

    Why do we do it? We have these jobs we know we need to do but we keep putting them off. By doing this, we make the job appear even more difficult than it is. We give it a power and then even more amazingly, we start to believe the hype we have created.

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  • Taking care of myself doesn't me first, it means me too - motivational quote
    N (Nourishment)

    Self care: Me too not Me First,

    Bydebs September 16, 2020December 8, 2024

    Self care isn’t about making you the number one priority and ignoring the needs of everyone around you. Self care means “me too”.

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  • Three frogs sat on a branch
    O (Oasis)

    Eat the ugly Frog first

    Bydebs September 9, 2020December 12, 2024

    If we eat the frog, (ie get that awful job done out of the way), then the rest of the day has got to be a breeze but what if you have more than one frog item on your list?

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  • Podcast – Ceri Gillett talks about business in a pandemic
    Podcast

    Podcast – Ceri Gillett talks about business in a pandemic

    Bydebs August 1, 2020January 28, 2025

    Ceri is a mother of one child and 3 businesses. She is business obsessed & passionately believes that entrepreneurship doesn’t end when you become a parent. She is the founder of Mubo, an organisation that provides workshops, networking and the first business accelerator specifically for parent-led businesses. She is a podcaster, an occasional writer and…

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  • Sarah Roberts - Don't be sorry 2
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    Podcast – Helping others with Sarah Roberts

    Bydebs July 13, 2020December 8, 2024

    Join Sarah Roberts as she talks to Debs from Life AsPland about how she gets motivated, stays motivated, juggles all the balls and unwinds.

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  • Mark Raynsford chatting to Life AsPland
    Podcast

    Podcast – Mark Raysnford

    Bydebs July 5, 2020December 8, 2024

    Join me as I chat to Mark Raynsford, a personal trainer of 19 years.
    We chat about knowing your why, are motivation and will power really brother and sister, does clarity bring confidence and much more.

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  • Ojo Henley speaking to Life AsPland
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    Podcast – Jo Henley

    Bydebs June 30, 2020December 8, 2024

    Join Debs from Life AsPland as she chats to Jo Henley (of Ojo’s World) about setting three alarms, coffee in bed, choosing your plates and her love of lists.

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  • Jodie Isitt - headshot
    Podcast

    Podcast – Jodie Isitt

    Bydebs June 14, 2020December 8, 2024

    Join Jodie Isitt and Debs as we talk about spa dates, writing masterpieces at 1am and more to get motivated.

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  • Podcast – Steph Nimmo
    Podcast

    Podcast – Steph Nimmo

    Bydebs June 14, 2020December 8, 2024

    Join Steph Nimmo and Debs as we chat about choosing excuses, going from a family of 6 to a family of 4 in 13 months, and how being vain can be a great motivator

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  • Podcast – Tina Medlock
    Podcast

    Podcast – Tina Medlock

    Bydebs June 14, 2020December 8, 2024

    Join us as Tina Medlock and Debs talk about “having lower standards”, planning and routines, along with no desire to do the housework when lockdown happened.

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  • To Do List, Planning and Scheduling
    O (Oasis)

    To Do List, Planning and Scheduling

    Bydebs June 8, 2020December 8, 2024

    “a plan Is what, a schedule is when. It takes both to get things done” Pubilius Syrus Lists Are you a list writer? Do you have lists everywhere? Or maybe even lists organised in one lovely book – yes I’m talking about you – or maybe you have amazing mind maps that you’ve spent hours…

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  • Incomplete Compassion
    N (Nourishment)

    Incomplete Compassion

    Bydebs June 5, 2020December 8, 2024

    Compassion – a strong feeling of sympathy and sadness for the suffering or bad luck of others and a wish to help them” Cambridge English Dictionary Everyone, with the exception of perhaps some psychopaths, has the ability to feel compassion towards others. Studies have shown that some psychopaths have the ability to feel compassion but…

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  • To do two things at once is to do neither
    O (Oasis)

    Focus, focus, focus

    Bydebs June 3, 2020December 9, 2024

    If you are anything like me, you are possibly involved in several projects. Maybe you’re not involved in lots of projects, but you are trying to juggle work, home, me-time, keeping fit, being a mum/dad, and somehow trying to find time to write that book or redecorate that room. or learn a new skill I…

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  • The only way you are going to have success is to have lots of failures first
    A (Advocacy)

    Failure, then success

    Bydebs June 1, 2020December 9, 2024

    Fear of Failure Why are we so afraid of failure? Failure means different things to different people; due to our upbringing, beliefs, values and obviously the standards we set for ourselves. Failure for one person may not be a failure for someone else. First of all, you need to really be clear about what failure…

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  • Start where you are, use what you have
    I (Insight)

    Do what you can

    Bydebs May 28, 2020December 9, 2024

    Start where you are Do you put things off because you are thinking of the end result too much and it seems so far away? Want to run a marathon? Want to lose a few stone? Want to start a podcast? Want to change career? You know what you have to do, don’t you? Start!…

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  • Self care allows you to give the world the best of you, instead of what's left of you
    N (Nourishment)

    Give the world the best of You

    Bydebs May 26, 2020December 9, 2024

    Self Care – Not a priority, sorry! How often do you put you first? How often do you do something that is just for your benefit and no one else’s? How often do you make time for yourself, to have a pamper, go for a run, meditate, write, read, watch a movie, paint, crochet, go…

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  • Are you busy being busy?
    O (Oasis)

    Are you busy being busy?

    Bydebs May 11, 2020December 9, 2024

    “There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all “ Peter F Drucker Come on, be honest, how often do you put off doing something you really need to do and then focus on doing something that doesn’t really need doing at all? Maybe you can spend hours…

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  • Woman relaxing on a a large arm chair
    N (Nourishment)

    Unplug for a few minutes

    Bydebs April 27, 2020December 12, 2024

    Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you. Anne Lamot How often do you take the time to do nothing? Absolutely nothing. Time to forget everything that is going on around you? Time to recharge your batteries? Time to just unwind? Why not? Anyone who worked in an…

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  • Young boy sat at a table using a Mountbatten braille machine
    I (Insight)

    Living with blindness

    Bydebs February 1, 2019December 12, 2024

    If I had been given the choice between having sight and losing it or being born blind, I would choose being born blind because if you have never had it, you don’t miss it.

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  • A box of assorted chocolates
    N (Nourishment)

    Let’s talk about chocolate

    Bydebs November 5, 2018December 12, 2024

    I love the stuff.  Be it as a bar of just chocolate or a bar with fruit, nuts, biscuit, caramel or nougat or a biscuit or a cake or a pudding.  Chocolate is my thing.

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  • A car steering wheel with lots of post it notes stuck to it.
    O (Oasis)

    Lists – where would we be without them

    Bydebs November 3, 2018December 12, 2024

    I love lists. I have lists for everything

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  • A spanish bus with "146 Los Molinos" written on the front
    O (Oasis)

    Travel – it pays to check

    Bydebs November 2, 2018December 12, 2024

    They had been so helpful in the past, I had always been given the correct phrase and it always worked.  It never crossed my mind to check!

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