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  • Superwoman is a fictional character
    I (Insight)

    The best advice I ever received, as a mum

    Bydebs July 29, 2017December 9, 2024

    When you have a child, everyone has a tip to share, their absolute must have best advice But some days it feels like everyone just wants to tell you what you’re doing wrong. Or at least that is how feels as a new mum who hasn’t had a good nights sleep for months.

    Read More The best advice I ever received, as a mumContinue

  • Power of routines
    O (Oasis)

    Practising what I preach – the power of Routines

    Bydebs May 22, 2017December 9, 2024

    I know the power of routines for my children but I hadn’t realised how much I needed routines to get me through the day until recently.

    Read More Practising what I preach – the power of RoutinesContinue

  • Meditating in the pool
    N (Nourishment)

    Practising what I preach – meditation and Pinterest Procrastination

    Bydebs April 19, 2017December 9, 2024

    This comes under my “finish what I start” category but if I am honest, the only start I had made on many projects was pinning the idea on Pinterest for inspiration at a later date.

    Read More Practising what I preach – meditation and Pinterest ProcrastinationContinue

  • Just do it
    I (Insight)

    Practising What I Preach (aka time to get my sh*t together)

    Bydebs March 31, 2017December 9, 2024

    Motivational quotes, such as “she knew she could so she did” are all very lovely but how many of us actually read that and get motivated.

    How many of us see that and think “oh how motivational, I must share that on Instagram”

    Read More Practising What I Preach (aka time to get my sh*t together)Continue

  • Being me

    Being a Northerner Down South

    Bydebs March 21, 2017December 9, 2024

    Now, although my accent has changed, I am no longer regarded as having a Northern accent when I am up North but I am also not regarded as having a Southern accent when I am down south.  The Northerners think I speak like a Southerner and the Southerners think I speak like a Northerner.

    Read More Being a Northerner Down SouthContinue

  • You're just lazy
    I (Insight)

    You’re just lazy

    Bydebs February 18, 2017December 9, 2024

    I think I saw myself through her eyes. I was explaining about the difficulties and her response was “Debs, sorry love but I think you’re just lazy, there’s no excuse”

    Read More You’re just lazyContinue

  • Starting over in February
    N (Nourishment)

    Drawing a line under January

    Bydebs February 1, 2017December 9, 2024

    The only way I can make next month a better one is to draw a line under this month and accept that it happened and that I cannot change it.

    Read More Drawing a line under JanuaryContinue

  • Book shelves filled with books
    K (Kindred)

    Favourite Books – Suggestions for Christmas

    Bydebs December 1, 2016December 12, 2024

    I wanted to share with you some books I have loved over the last few years.  Books guaranteed to encourage, inspire and motivate.

    Read More Favourite Books – Suggestions for ChristmasContinue

  • The SEND Line
    K (Kindred)

    The SEND Line – A never ending rollercoaster

    Bydebs November 17, 2016December 9, 2024

    Life on the SEND Line is a never ending rollercoaster, catch a reply of a FB Live I did about life on the SEND Line.

    Read More The SEND Line – A never ending rollercoasterContinue

  • Trello - how to use
    O (Oasis)

    Trello: Top Tips to get organised with Trello

    Bydebs October 12, 2016December 9, 2024

    Trello describes itself as  “…. the easy, free, flexible, and visual way to manage your projects and organize anything”

    Read More Trello: Top Tips to get organised with TrelloContinue

  • Your goals or someone else's
    T (Tomorrow)

    Chasing your own goals

    Bydebs September 19, 2016December 9, 2024

    Are you going to the gym because it helps you to reach your goal of being fit/running 5K or are you going to encourage a friend who won’t stick at it if you don’t push her? Are you running a group because your goal is to bring people together or do you do it because no one else will?

    Read More Chasing your own goalsContinue

  • O (Oasis)

    3 Tips to Part Ways with Procrastination

    Bydebs September 16, 2016December 9, 2024

    If, like me, you are a great list writer but not so great at doing; if you too are a Leader in Procrastination, then hopefully one of these will help you to part ways with procrastination.

    Read More 3 Tips to Part Ways with ProcrastinationContinue

  • Just write it down
    O (Oasis)

    Just Write it Down

    Bydebs September 12, 2016December 9, 2024

    I don’t know about you but I’m reaching that age when I forget why I walked into a room, what I’m looking for and yesterday, I even took the scenic route home – by scenic, I mean long and totally unnecessary! Summer Holiday Brain Mode: My brain is still in summer holiday mode.  Summer holiday…

    Read More Just Write it DownContinue

  • Back to School - Calm in progress
    N (Nourishment)

    Calm after the Chaos – Back to School

    Bydebs September 8, 2016December 9, 2024

    It’s that time of year, relief and hoorays mixed with a tinge of sadness, a huge serving of stress and anxiety and a side helping of “why did I leave the new shoe purchases so late – again”?  The time of year when we think about the calm.

    Read More Calm after the Chaos – Back to SchoolContinue

  • Caravan Inspiration
    N (Nourishment)

    Caravan inspiration

    Bydebs September 2, 2016December 9, 2024

    I am thinking of a coastal theme for the van – I would go shabby chic but I think my hubby may divorce me as it’s a family van.

    Read More Caravan inspirationContinue

  • Dymchurch Beach
    N (Nourishment) | Traveling

    Join us for a walk down the beach

    Bydebs August 29, 2016December 9, 2024

    As part of owning the caravan is a quest to do more outside the house as a family, away from iPads and PS4s, having such a great walk on the doorstep is such an asset.

    Read More Join us for a walk down the beachContinue

  • New project Caravan
    N (Nourishment)

    Scratching my itchy feet

    Bydebs August 25, 2016December 9, 2024

    Having lived in our current home for 13 years, I realised it was the longest I had lived at the same address – ever.  

    Read More Scratching my itchy feetContinue

  • Ghandi MPs
    A (Advocacy)

    What do our MPs teach our children?

    Bydebs August 22, 2016December 9, 2024

    Do MPs provide us with good examples of behaviour to share with our children or examples of how not to behave?

    Read More What do our MPs teach our children?Continue

  • Love
    I (Insight)

    What I love about the SEND Minefield

    Bydebs July 28, 2016December 9, 2024

    The things I love about life in the SEND Minefield.  Yes there are some positives.

    Read More What I love about the SEND MinefieldContinue

  • hate about SEND Minefied
    A (Advocacy)

    What I hate about the SEND Minefield

    Bydebs July 25, 2016December 9, 2024

    The experiences that have left me sat seething with anger, crying in pain or shaking with frustration.

    Read More What I hate about the SEND MinefieldContinue

  • A quote for my children
    K (Kindred)

    A quote for my children

    Bydebs July 24, 2016December 9, 2024

    Its’ not the critic who counts

    Read More A quote for my childrenContinue

  • Negative Stereotypes
    A (Advocacy)

    Negative Stereotypes

    Bydebs July 20, 2016December 9, 2024

    The joy that is Rain Man has helped to perpetuate many myths around autism; we are often asked what his talent is or if he can recall everything he has read.

    Read More Negative StereotypesContinue

  • Boat on the sea
    N (Nourishment)

    Me Time? How do you spend it?

    Bydebs July 11, 2016December 9, 2024

    When I need me time, I head to the beach. I’m a beach for all seasons type of girl

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  • I (Insight)

    How do you use an Obsession?

    Bydebs June 16, 2016December 9, 2024

    Like most parents who have a child with ASD, I had read all the books I could find and each of them said “use their obsession” but no one explained what this meant.  

    Read More How do you use an Obsession?Continue

  • Baker Small 1
    A (Advocacy)

    Baker Small (BS), what were you thinking?

    Bydebs June 12, 2016December 9, 2024

    This company were not just celebrating a win, they were laughing at the parents who had lost.  Somehow, the child at the centre of this didn’t appear to be even considered.  

    Read More Baker Small (BS), what were you thinking?Continue

  • Bullet Journal in the world of Special Needs
    O (Oasis)

    Bullet Journal in the world of Special Needs

    Bydebs June 9, 2016December 9, 2024

    I wanted to share with you how I use the Bullet Journal method to keep on top of the Special Needs Minefield.

    Read More Bullet Journal in the world of Special NeedsContinue

  • Oh Bless Him
    A (Advocacy) | K (Kindred)

    “Oh Bless Him” – “Oh Bugger Off”

    Bydebs May 23, 2016December 8, 2024

    please, when you see him do not say “oh bless him”.  The number of people who say this is unbelievable.  It’s as if everyone thinks that because his eyes don’t work, his ears have stopped working too.  He can hear you!

    Read More “Oh Bless Him” – “Oh Bugger Off”Continue

  • Ready Steady Go
    A (Advocacy)

    Stop, Get Ready & Go – Working with Families

    Bydebs May 16, 2016December 9, 2024

    A few tips on good practice when working with families and children with SEND.

    Read More Stop, Get Ready & Go – Working with FamiliesContinue

  • Just Say Thank You
    K (Kindred)

    Just say “Thank You”

    Bydebs April 28, 2016December 9, 2024

    Why can we not just say thank you and move on?  This is something I have been thinking about for some time.  I like to give compliments but I am useless at receiving them.

    Read More Just say “Thank You”Continue

  • When did you last treat yourself?
    N (Nourishment)

    When did you last treat yourself?

    Bydebs April 21, 2016December 9, 2024

    Do treats need to cost anything? What makes you smile, what makes you happy?

    Read More When did you last treat yourself?Continue

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Debs from Life AsPland is a parent carer to three teenagers with a variety of Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND).

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